Tuesday, May 27, 2008

A Leader Should Know How to Manage Failure

When failure occurred, the leader of the organization owned that failure.
When success came, he gave it to his team.
The best management lesson I have learned did not come to me from reading a book; it came from that experience.
(Former President of India APJ Abdul Kalam at Wharton India Economic forum, Philadelphia , March 22,2008)
Question: Could you give an example, from your own experience, of how> leaders should manage failure?
Kalam: Let me tell you about my experience.
In 1973 I became the project director of India 's satellite launch vehicle program, commonly called the SLV-3. Our goal was to put India 's "Rohini" satellite into orbit by 1980. I was given funds and human resources -- but was told clearly that by 1980 we had to launch the satellite into space. Thousands of people worked together in scientific and technical teams towards that goal.
By 1979 -- I think the month was August -- we thought we were ready. As the project director, I went to the control center for the launch. At four minutes before the satellite launch, the computer began to go through the checklist of items that needed to be checked. One minute later, the computer program put the launch on hold; the display showed that some control components were not in order. My experts -- I had four or five of them with me -- told me not to worry; they had done their calculations and there was enough reserve fuel. So I bypassed the computer, switched to manual mode, and launched the rocket. In the first stage, everything worked fine. In the second stage, a problem developed. Instead of the satellite going into orbit, the whole rocket system plunged into the Bay of Bengal . It was a big failure.
That day, the chairman of the Indian Space Research Organization, Prof. Satish Dhawan, had called a press conference. The launch was at 7:00 am, and the press conference -- where journalists from around the world were> present -- was at 7:45 am at ISRO's satellite launch range in Sriharikota [in Andhra Pradesh in southern India ]. Prof. Dhawan, the leader of the organization, conducted the press conference himself. He took responsibility for the failure -- he said that the team had worked very hard, but that it needed more technological support. He assured the media that in another year, the team would definitely succeed. Now, I was the project director, and it was my failure, but instead, he took> responsibility for the failure as chairman of the organization.
The next year, in July 1980, we tried again to launch the satellite -- and this time we succeeded. The whole nation was jubilant. Again, there was a press conference. Prof. Dhawan called me aside and told me, "You conduct the press conference today." I learned a very important lesson that day. When failure occurred, the leader of the organization owned that failure. When success came, he gave it to his team. The best management lesson I have learned did not come to me from reading a book; it came from that experience.
"Delighting You Always"

Friday, May 23, 2008

Good Helper

Who is that?
Is Liz...
What is she doing?
She is mopping...
Haha...what a good helper!

Sunday, May 18, 2008

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一分愛心,一絲善意

我們深信,關懷與付出,能陪伴

每一個傷痛的心靈
每一片受創的土地
每一處暗角的眾生

重獲求生的意志
重建希望的愿景

迎向亮麗的明天

愛,需要更多人來付出


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Thursday, May 15, 2008

Cholesterol

Try 3 tea spoon of oat (require cooking not instant type, preferably organic n need to cook type) and dissolve with drinkable room temp. water and soak overnight. (u could do it be4 u go to bed) Drink them all the next mornin b4 your breakfast. It's quite nice to drink as already soft.

Try everyday for 3 months n check yr cholesterol, it should come down significantly. Many had try n found it works n cost effective with no side effect, if u r taking statin drug u can also try but dont drop drug until u achieved good result n doctor say so.

Cooked oats especially instant are very slow to reduce cholesterol, eatin raw is better absorption n more effective. Pls share this infor with others..

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

倒數 (一個很有意思的故事!)

從事投資顧問的我,從來都很愛自己的家人,愛自己的伴侶。至少 ,我以為是這樣。 我每天的主要工作是緊貼著香港及美國股市,就是這樣,已經花掉大半生時間。 餘下的時間就安置在情人、朋友、及家人身上。

為了《愛得太遲》的內容,為了對家人、情人的內疚感而流過眼淚, 但淚痕風化後,仍雖繼續為「將來 」而賣命。 為了《無事常相見》的歌詞,為了曾被冷落的好友而眼淺過,但深呼吸一口氣,還是要營役餘生。 為了未能抽空回家團年,為了未能抽空陪女朋友驗身,我們竟花得起寶貴的時間來冷戰。 但我想,父母、伴侶,都是最親的人,應該會明白的.

我的生日快要來臨,但沒有期待過,因為,根本沒甚麼值得慶祝。 反而,想一個人靜下來,禸刻的寧靜。 在南島的度假屋內,我準備感受一個較孤單的生日. 在晚上,靜坐在度假屋的露台,沐浴在帶有點點鹽份的微風中,整個世界都變得很寧靜。

突然,我迷迷糊糊的聽見頗陌生的聲音,我再細心一點聽…… 原來, 他在跟我說話:「……年青人,我希望今年送您一份很特別的生日禮物,甚麼也可以。我想,我大概已經進入了夢境,跟神仙對話。我微笑回應道:「是神仙嗎?那…… 我真的甚麼願望也可以提出?」 "對。" 「那,我就希望有一雙眼,能夠看透每一隻股票升跌時間。」 「沒有問題,那對眼睛已經給您了。」 夢醒了,一笑置之。

第二天,回到戰場上,我看著升得頗急的「森力鋼鐵」, 心想 「它還可以升多少天」呢, 突然間,有個發光的「3」字浮在「森力鋼鐵」之上。三天後,它真的插式回落了。 原來,這份生日禮物是…… 真的。 我善用這雙上天賜給我的「眼睛」,在股票市場嬴了很多場勝仗。

不過,! 我已經有很多天沒有見過家人和女朋友了。 今天回家,一推開門,就向著自己的房間走去,隱約的聽見媽媽說:「明天是爸爸生日,> 你可以回來吃飯嗎?」 不過,爸爸立即搶著說:「不用回來,你忙你的工作吧!」 我放下了工作包,就走到客廳跟爸爸說: "如果可以的話我會……… " 突然,我看見爸爸的頭頂出現了一個發光的數字…… 「35」。 我立即給嚇呆了。之後,我慢慢回到房間,35天後,爸爸會…… 爸爸生日那天,我盡能力完成手頭上的工作,回到家,爸爸已經睡了。 我在房間像小朋友的哭起來。

三天後,我請了假期跟父母飲早茶,看見爸爸的發光的數字是「34」…… 原來,這是我還可以見他的次數。 慢慢地,我也看見媽媽的頭上浮現了「45」這個數字。原來,看著自己跟家人的相處日子在無情的倒數,心,是很痛,很痛的。

星期天,被我冷落了的女朋友終於來電,想見一見我。我們就相約在又一城的COVA見面,因為我記得,她很想到 COVA吃甜品,但我一直未有時間陪她。 我到了好一陣子,她還沒有出現>……半小時後,我看見站在大門口的她……頭上面出現了「1」字,我……還看見她身邊多了一個「他」。 這次之後,我們真的再也沒有見面。

一個星期後,我辭掉了工作,盡量陪伴在家人的左右,用儲下來的積蓄跟他們去旅行,直至爸爸患了重病 …… 直至爸爸頭上終於出現「個位」數字。 最後陪伴爸爸的幾天,我盡量逃避正面面對他,最多也只是低下頭跟爸爸說話 , 因為我不希望看見「3」、「2」、「1! 」。 > > 在隱約看見爸爸的 "1" 字那刻,我離開了病房,走到街上。 在途中我一直淚流滿面,眼前的東西都已經看得不清不楚。 在醫院大門外,我看見媽媽,抹乾眼淚後, 她的頭上竟然出現「1」字…… > 媽媽 …… 我轉身看著身邊的途人, 全部都在頭頂掛著發光的「1」…… 我呆呆地退後一步,就看著馬路上的巴士撞向自己,來不及反應,我已經眼前一黑。

很光…… 很光……原來,已經天亮了 …… 原來我還在度假屋的露台上。 多謝他的「生日禮物」,我想,我大概知道餘下的路應該怎樣行。 我們 ……是不是要看見「倒數」, 才會懂得珍惜可以親眼看見他 / 她的「這一次」。

朋友:就由今天起,每次與父母、親人、伴侶、朋友見面,就請珍重珍惜。要學懂世事無常 !!!

Monday, May 12, 2008

The Cross















No Pain No Gain…
Accept the Pain, Future will be Fruitful…
Don't feel the work you are doing is pain,
because there will be always a reason for that pain or work .
So face the pain, for the pain you face,
there will be definitely happiness ahead.

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Detoxin

life is too short to look around the world, sharing is good....

Baby Porcupine

hey... what's that?
hv u seen a porcupine b4?
yes, it's baby portupine... it's cute right?

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Labour Day @ Home

See who r there at ard 2pm in the lazy afternoon of a public holiday
can you recognize her?
she is our fren SL & daughter playing under the hot sun...

曾經感動了千萬人的漫畫

juz spend a few mins to read thru... it's really good
(花個幾分鐘看一下吧。真的很棒。)
when we r small...
they spent time to teach us how to use folk, chopstick, eat...
teach us the way to wear cloth, button up, tighted shoe lace...
teach us the way to wash our little face, comb hair...
teach us the way of human sense...
so....
if one day they getting older...
when they can't remember or can't respond fast....
don't blame them...
when they forget to button up,
forget to tight up shoe lace...
when they start dirty their cloth while eating...
when their hand start shaking while comb hair...
pls don't push them...
becoz when u slowly grow up,
but they r slowly getting old...
when the time u be with them...
their heard will become warm
if 1 day, the moment they can't stand still, can't even walk
pls hold their hands tight, company them to walk slowly...
like... ...same like those day when they holded ur little hand...
juz a simple comic that touch ppl...